A Question Of Gratitude
“ Memories are everyone’s diary she/he carry around every day. What she/he can record and recall later in life depends on the storage capacity! Little memory, little recording, short recalling. This explains why some remember, while others forget!
A little ( short) memory is like having a pocket diary with few sheets to write things that happen to you daily.
An example is the 10 lepers who were healed by Jesus. Nine had low memory ( few sheets to write on) hence they quickly forgot what Jesus did for them.
The one who came to thank him had a large storage ( many sheets to write on) capacity. So he recalled what was done?
So, any time someone you helped does you evil, know that he has very limited sheets ( memory capacity ) to write what you did for him/her!
Mark, take note , ignore, overlook him/her do not be bitter against him/her. He/she has a short memory capacity. An underdeveloped mind.
If you can see and understand things this way you’ll never be bitter, provoked , worry or disturbed.
There are some with low memory capacity, they easily forget what you’ve done for them. Unfortunately, they are in the majority
Then there are some with high memory capacity ( many sheets in their diary to write on) these recall, remember etc.
All are not the same, so do not destroy /circumvent your happiness by focusing on low memory /capacity people
My take.